CURE 2026
The second annual CURE has wrapped up. I have mostly recovered, so it is time to write about it. This time, I penned a scene post first, so I won’t get overwhelmed and forget like I did with KK last Continue reading CURE 2026
Tag Archives: service
Submission is My Kink
I wrote recently about Service not being my kink, about how it fulfills me rather than turning me on. Submission, on the other hand, turns me on quite a bit. Giving my power over to someone else for even a Continue reading Submission is My Kink
Service Is Not My Kink
Service: work done in obedience to and for the benefit of another (OED) Kink: Sexual desires or practices regarded as unusual or unconventional (OED) I wrote about over ten years ago in the context of group service, and a bit Continue reading Service Is Not My Kink
GFA Reflections
A new kink con by first time organizers, and my first since the pandemic started. I didn’t post beforehand because it would have been all nerves and anticipation. There were a lot of people on the RSVP list, a lot Continue reading GFA Reflections
Kinky Getaway
A group of kinky friends went away for a long weekend in the woods. It was absolutely delightful. A relaxing few days of food, fellowship, and floating. Salt water is so much better than chlorine. Also, fruit snacks might be Continue reading Kinky Getaway
Negotiation
I usually say to Him: no hospital, jail, nor morgue. We tease that I have “no limits” with Him, or that He has “taken them all away.” But it’s not actually true. I don’t generally approve of things like forced Continue reading Negotiation
Rope, Beatings, and Service
I had a really nice time at WW last weekend. I got to hang out with many members of my chosen family, and one even offered me a bed, so I didn’t have to drive home in the middle of the Continue reading Rope, Beatings, and Service
Quiet Holidays
I posted a lot in November, and haven’t posted since. Sorry about that. I’ve been taking lots of Me Time. Playing video games, watching Netflix, relaxing, and even some cooking. Looking forward to some quiet holidays. I’ve got my usual Continue reading Quiet Holidays
Sex, Words, and Trauma 2015
“So, you’re not going to write about me?” I don’t write about the sex I have. I don’t write about things I’m not willing to do in public, because let’s face it, the internet is public. Intimacy is intimate, to Continue reading Sex, Words, and Trauma 2015
Group Service
As a service sub, I have generally only served one person. I serve him in a variety of ways, at varying levels of protocol, depending on the situation and event. I have served him in combination with his other partners Continue reading Group Service