CURE 2026
The second annual CURE has wrapped up. I have mostly recovered, so it is time to write about it. This time, I penned a scene post first, so I won’t get overwhelmed and forget like I did with KK last Continue reading CURE 2026
Tag Archives: communication
Ropey Something?
He asked. Any desires tonight? Ropey something? Struggle rope. Tight hug rope. Spacey rope. Not sure. I was feeling stressy about the weekend. He was supportive, no pressure. Talked about His other plans. He had dug out the old metal play Continue reading Ropey Something?
Night Huntress series by Jeaniene Frost
Loving this series. For a lot of reasons, but especially the treatment of the main relationship. Read an article recently about how women like romance novels because they feature not just happy endings, but men taking responsibility for bad behavior, Continue reading Night Huntress series by Jeaniene Frost
People Plan, The Gods Laugh
Had it all planned out. The three of us ride in together, set up, Bratting as Service class, scene with Him, scene with new partner, then DM, tear down and home. Then came a really rough week, and the storms. Continue reading People Plan, The Gods Laugh
Just Breathe
I like pain. I like nipple clamps. I like kneeling for him. But I’m 42 years old and have been living, like you, through a pandemic for the last three years. My body is no longer in the “doing kinky Continue reading Just Breathe
Things I Took Away from COPE:
Friday Play Party: Wooden paddles are awesome, and awful, and pretty, and evil, and OMFG they sting! Giving him two targets, an alcove, and plenty of toys is a recipe for Amazing. I need to quit comparing… no, really, knock Continue reading Things I Took Away from COPE:
Frustration
Mind is spinning on a lot of different topics. Topics I’ve talked about before, at length. Things happening that have happened before. I skimmed back through my blog, for previous posts to jump off from. But my thoughts aren’t organized. Continue reading Frustration
Intent
A woman is hugging everyone goodbye and comes towards you with her arms spread wide vs. a woman is crowding you into a corner with her arms spread wide. A man is behind you in line, follows you through the Continue reading Intent
Secondary Poly
Still not feeling well, so this may or may not make any sense. Today’s topic: poly. More specifically: strange ramblings from the secondary point of view. Part One. Someone started a thread over on FL with this quote: “Primary partners Continue reading Secondary Poly
Boundary Responsibility
Boundary responsibility has been on my mind a lot lately. Who’s responsibility are your boundaries and agreements? On the surface, this answer is simple – you are responsible for your own boundaries. You are responsible for knowing your boundaries, for Continue reading Boundary Responsibility