CURE 2026
The second annual CURE has wrapped up. I have mostly recovered, so it is time to write about it. This time, I penned a scene post first, so I won’t get overwhelmed and forget like I did with KK last Continue reading CURE 2026
Category Archives: D/s
Submission is My Kink
I wrote recently about Service not being my kink, about how it fulfills me rather than turning me on. Submission, on the other hand, turns me on quite a bit. Giving my power over to someone else for even a Continue reading Submission is My Kink
Service Is Not My Kink
Service: work done in obedience to and for the benefit of another (OED) Kink: Sexual desires or practices regarded as unusual or unconventional (OED) I wrote about over ten years ago in the context of group service, and a bit Continue reading Service Is Not My Kink
Ropey Something?
He asked. Any desires tonight? Ropey something? Struggle rope. Tight hug rope. Spacey rope. Not sure. I was feeling stressy about the weekend. He was supportive, no pressure. Talked about His other plans. He had dug out the old metal play Continue reading Ropey Something?
My First Leather Bar
I don’t write about sex all that much, not in the “I had sex let me describe it like a porn writer” way, just in the fantastical way or hot scenes. Sex is personal to me these days, and more Continue reading My First Leather Bar
Control and Cattle Prods
He brought two cattle prods with Him this year. A full-sized one that you might imagine when you hear those words, and a smaller, stun-gun sized one. Both with the high pitched whine of charging. Neither with the tell-tale crackle Continue reading Control and Cattle Prods
GFA Reflections
A new kink con by first time organizers, and my first since the pandemic started. I didn’t post beforehand because it would have been all nerves and anticipation. There were a lot of people on the RSVP list, a lot Continue reading GFA Reflections
Kinky Getaway
A group of kinky friends went away for a long weekend in the woods. It was absolutely delightful. A relaxing few days of food, fellowship, and floating. Salt water is so much better than chlorine. Also, fruit snacks might be Continue reading Kinky Getaway
Just Breathe
I like pain. I like nipple clamps. I like kneeling for him. But I’m 42 years old and have been living, like you, through a pandemic for the last three years. My body is no longer in the “doing kinky Continue reading Just Breathe
Two Weeks In
Two weeks later, I’m definitely meeting my goals for exercise: He has rewarded me with five orgasms each weekend, one for each star. These two weeks have also gotten me to my candle goal, so that’s been ordered, as well. Continue reading Two Weeks In