CURE 2026
The second annual CURE has wrapped up. I have mostly recovered, so it is time to write about it. This time, I penned a scene post first, so I won’t get overwhelmed and forget like I did with KK last Continue reading CURE 2026
Category Archives: Reflection
Submission is My Kink
I wrote recently about Service not being my kink, about how it fulfills me rather than turning me on. Submission, on the other hand, turns me on quite a bit. Giving my power over to someone else for even a Continue reading Submission is My Kink
Service Is Not My Kink
Service: work done in obedience to and for the benefit of another (OED) Kink: Sexual desires or practices regarded as unusual or unconventional (OED) I wrote about over ten years ago in the context of group service, and a bit Continue reading Service Is Not My Kink
Kinky Classes
Kinky Kollege had three days of classes, though admittedly, only one class session on Friday. Saturday had four class blocks, plus an early morning block to get ready. Sunday hosted three blocks, plus the same early morning meetings. I attended Continue reading Kinky Classes
I Went to Skool
I attended my first Kinky Kollege for Spring Break just a few days ago and I have a lot of thoughts and a lot of gratitude for everyone who made the event possible. In the before times, I would have Continue reading I Went to Skool
It’s Again
Somehow, despite being scheduled, this did not post back in November…. so, well, I’ll put a bit of an update at the end. I was vaguely optimistic, though a bit frightened disappointed last time. This time, I’m terrified. It’s not Continue reading It’s Again
Night Huntress series by Jeaniene Frost
Loving this series. For a lot of reasons, but especially the treatment of the main relationship. Read an article recently about how women like romance novels because they feature not just happy endings, but men taking responsibility for bad behavior, Continue reading Night Huntress series by Jeaniene Frost
I Hate Stingy
It’s a love-hate relationship, really. I’m a thuddy gal. I want deep impact. I want to feel it through my entire body. I want hard pressure. Strong grips. Rope winding tight about me. Teeth sinking deep into my flesh. But Continue reading I Hate Stingy
GFA Reflections
A new kink con by first time organizers, and my first since the pandemic started. I didn’t post beforehand because it would have been all nerves and anticipation. There were a lot of people on the RSVP list, a lot Continue reading GFA Reflections
30 Days of Kink, 2023 Edition
I was sharing this blog with a new person this week, and I glanced through my 30 Days of Kink from 2011 and was highly amused at some of the things I said. So, in an effort to keep drop Continue reading 30 Days of Kink, 2023 Edition