I usually say to Him: no hospital, jail, nor morgue. We tease that I have “no limits” with Him, or that He has “taken them all away.” But it’s not actually true.
I don’t generally approve of things like forced hair cutting, branding, serious cutting/piercing (though we do occasionally play with slight cutting and needles). I have health issues that restrict my movement and positions. I don’t do things in my butt (this sentence was longer, but I think I’ll just stop there). I don’t do public (around people) sex. I don’t do degradation play. I don’t do life/bodily function control shit (food, money, toilet use). On which note, also not toilet functions or blood play.
It’s sometimes hard to list all the no things. Especially if one has a creative Top. It is often easier, for us, to do inclusive negotiation, rather than exclusive. What do we Want to do, rather than not do.
Things I (would) like to do with Him:
Intense Sensation: poking, pinching, biting, smacking, squeezing, slapping, spanking, flogging, whipping, paddling, needles, surface cutting, electricity, fire, cupping, wax, clamps, clips, breath control…
Bondage: rope, suspension, straight jacket, belts/straps, people wrap, duct tape, cuffs, shackles, soft gags, hoods, struggle cuddles, mental control
Mental: flirting, sexual teasing/talk, fear, D/s, sensory deprivation
Sexual: kissing, touching, massage, masturbation, oral, (sex), being used, vibrators/toys
Service: boot blacking, rope care, cleaning, scene assistant, serving
