My Favorite Number
27 has been my favorite number since I was a kid, but you don’t think about that nearly as much as an adult. It started because I thought my Dad had said it was his favorite. But when I found Continue reading My Favorite Number
Tag Archives: pain
Cut Up
Ow! Why is it Still Hurting?!?! 😅 We had been planning to cut me for the last couple years. Picked out a knife, talked here and there. Events did not align. Life took precedence. Then a party appeared. Allowing cutting, Continue reading Cut Up
Group Needles
I didn’t want to do it alone. He gets excited and wants to push them quickly. I can’t process that fast. She offered to do a scene together and the other two came to watch and support, or so they Continue reading Group Needles
Windows of Opportunity
It started with a comment, Z would be coming to the party. An opportunity to play. We hadn’t since February. A holiday again. What could we do? A couple days to marinate and he came back with OTK beatings. Oh, Continue reading Windows of Opportunity
GFA Reflections
A new kink con by first time organizers, and my first since the pandemic started. I didn’t post beforehand because it would have been all nerves and anticipation. There were a lot of people on the RSVP list, a lot Continue reading GFA Reflections
Kinky Getaway
A group of kinky friends went away for a long weekend in the woods. It was absolutely delightful. A relaxing few days of food, fellowship, and floating. Salt water is so much better than chlorine. Also, fruit snacks might be Continue reading Kinky Getaway
Good Communication = Good Results
The last post discussed intentions and insecurities. This post will be about results. Or results so far. The next post will be more about how it turned out. Let me explain. After the last post, negotiating began in earnest with Continue reading Good Communication = Good Results
Pain in Joy
Curiosity is my own worst best enemy friend in kink. I say no out of habit to new things if they seem scary. But if it is someone I know, like, trust, enjoy, I never stop there. My brain processes Continue reading Pain in Joy
Naked in the Woods with a Flogger
Pack a bag, put in at least four hanks of rope and three toys you want to play with tonight. I picked the toy bag without the shoulder strap because it was easier to empty out and refill than the Continue reading Naked in the Woods with a Flogger
Just Breathe
I like pain. I like nipple clamps. I like kneeling for him. But I’m 42 years old and have been living, like you, through a pandemic for the last three years. My body is no longer in the “doing kinky Continue reading Just Breathe