Chronically Ill, Polyamorous, Kinky, GeekThese words do not define meBut they inform who I amAs a person, a friend, and a lover Two out of four are not shown To the general publicTo my familyThey only get half of who I Continue reading Identity
I keep having all these thoughts about what to blog about when I’m not sitting at the computer nor able to write them down. Then it is several days before I get to a place where I have the time Continue reading All the Ideas
Personal identity. Gender identity. Sexual identity. Secret identity. I think of identity as internal, as opposed to the exterior-ness of labels. Identity is who I am. It is how I feel. It is my proclivities, my interests, my views and Continue reading Identity
So I was reading posts on Fearless Press, looking for ideas for today’s post. I liked a lot of the posts, and, as I said in the previous post, the idea of labels and active D/s came to mind. Well, Continue reading Labels and Active Exchanges
I’ve written about labels many times, but I have generally ignored names and titles between people. By that I mean, I ‘ve written about labeling oneself Dom or sub, but not about calling someone Master X or Slave Y. Last Continue reading The Power of a Name
My mind is full and swirling this week. I thought I had about five different topics to write about, but in just a few seconds of brainstorming on the page, I came up with ten. Discussions this week have ranged Continue reading New Toy, Rushing River and a Solid Bridge
Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general? I call them labels as opposed to titles. Here is my most recent Continue reading Day Twenty-Nine – Titles
I had a stray thought today, of putting all my writings, emails and musings from the past three months into a book and titling it Broken. That is not to say that things are fixed, but just my way of Continue reading Putting Humpty Together Again
As I posted yesterday, my first professionally published piece is available for sale. Also yesterday, Elysium Avenue reblogged my Consensual Non-Consent post. Last week, after making my post here about drop, I found a new blog called Fearless Press and Continue reading Big Week, Lots of Links and Labels
He asked for an evening of service. I began to plan. What types of things could I do for him? What would he enjoy? What would be most useful? He cautioned me to not get too specific, to have a Continue reading Service