Loving this series. For a lot of reasons, but especially the treatment of the main relationship. Read an article recently about how women like romance novels because they feature not just happy endings, but men taking responsibility for bad behavior, Continue reading Night Huntress series by Jeaniene Frost
The last post discussed intentions and insecurities. This post will be about results. Or results so far. The next post will be more about how it turned out. Let me explain. After the last post, negotiating began in earnest with Continue reading Good Communication = Good Results
I’ve been in the local community for something like 16 years at this point, and I’m still not great at asking for what I want. We’re back to monthly education parties, though He and I aren’t running them anymore, thank Continue reading Play and Negotiations
Two weeks later, I’m definitely meeting my goals for exercise: He has rewarded me with five orgasms each weekend, one for each star. These two weeks have also gotten me to my candle goal, so that’s been ordered, as well. Continue reading Two Weeks In
I’ve been on a quest to lose weight for just over four years now. I have not been, ultimately, successful. Be it willpower, genetics, the pandemic, or just the way things are. So, I have switched tactics to focus on Continue reading The Challenge
I usually say to Him: no hospital, jail, nor morgue. We tease that I have “no limits” with Him, or that He has “taken them all away.” But it’s not actually true. I don’t generally approve of things like forced Continue reading Negotiation
Thinking about limits again because He asked. I’ve been in therapy for years now because of self esteem, communication, and depression issues. I am very good at tearing myself down, not feeling worthy, not standing up for myself, and letting Continue reading Mental Limit
The quote from Imp of the Perverse (E.A. Poe) that I use as a tagline on this site: There is no passion in nature so demoniacally impatient, as that of him who, shuddering upon the edge of a precipice, thus Continue reading The Trouble with Perverted Imp
I was commenting the other day that most things on my soft limits are there due to the loud noise they make. And that I have to trust someone first. On late night reflection, this seemed an odd way to Continue reading Fear and Control
I hate public speaking. I turned down a job I was told I’d almost certainly get because it involved the word faculty. I ended up getting a job that still includes instruction, but only in one-offs, and only a few Continue reading Teaching