I read a post by a good friend of mine today, and it raised two topics in my mind, (one I have posted on before). Today’s post was about not taking things personally when people ask questions about your lifestyle Continue reading Try Love, Not Anger
Fear – Knowledge – Understanding – Acceptance – Normativity New ideas are met with fear. People fear what they don’t understand. So, those with the new ideas keep talking, bringing knowledge about the idea to others. They educate people so Continue reading The Cycle of Change, Simplified
Personal identity. Gender identity. Sexual identity. Secret identity. I think of identity as internal, as opposed to the exterior-ness of labels. Identity is who I am. It is how I feel. It is my proclivities, my interests, my views and Continue reading Identity
I don’t think I did justice to the topic of my journey into submission in my long rambling post. Not sure I really did justice to any of the topics I covered, but this one struck me especially. I talked Continue reading Blossoming Submission
One more time. Here is the final selection of my thoughts on The Ethical Slut, part two. Soon, I’ll get to Part Three. And maybe even a post about the 2nd edition of this wonderful book. This post is on Continue reading Conflict & Communication
It’s been a long week, and I’m not ready to post about it, may never. Not the specifics anyway. But I want to write today, about some of the solutions. I hesitated about that word, solutions. We haven’t fully solved Continue reading Learning to be Active by Doing
Talk about something within kink/BDSM that you’re curious about/don’t understand. I don’t understand you (I don’t understand you) I just don’t understand you (I don’t understand you) I don’t understand the things you say I can’t understand a single word Continue reading Day Twenty – Do You Understand
A day late, but hopefully not a dollar short, my dear readers. Yesterday, life and a missing power cord got in the way of my posting. It has been quite the roller coaster ride for me lately, but what would Continue reading Communication, Goals and Separation