Day Twenty-Two Healthy Relationships
What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship? Clear and Honest Communication is important in any relationship. My 30 Days of Kink
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The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt
Just finished reading The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt, original edition. I was only a few chapters in when I realized that I would be reading it over again, with pen and paper in hand, if Continue reading The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt
What’s on Your Mind?
Ten pm on Thursday night. I’m going to a con this weekend, to relax, teach and drink with a good number of my chosen family. It is not a kinky convention, but there will be kinky classes. We are teaching Continue reading What’s on Your Mind?
Communication, Emotion & Insecurity
I am woman, hear me roar? So many things in that one little phrase and the way I typed it. I am woman – identity. Hear me – communication. Roar – emotions. Question mark – insecurity. I am secure in Continue reading Communication, Emotion & Insecurity
Putting Humpty Together Again
I had a stray thought today, of putting all my writings, emails and musings from the past three months into a book and titling it Broken. That is not to say that things are fixed, but just my way of Continue reading Putting Humpty Together Again
Stress Free Service
Life is hectic. People are busy and stressed and full of work and responsibility. The holidays bring on schedule changes and family gatherings and bigger loads at work as the year comes to a close. There is a often a Continue reading Stress Free Service
Big Week, Lots of Links and Labels
As I posted yesterday, my first professionally published piece is available for sale. Also yesterday, Elysium Avenue reblogged my Consensual Non-Consent post. Last week, after making my post here about drop, I found a new blog called Fearless Press and Continue reading Big Week, Lots of Links and Labels
When Things End
Written on Thursday. What happens when a relationship stops growing? What happens when you can see no romantic future? I name him Lover here because I love him. Because the romantic notion of extramarital affair, without all the lying and Continue reading When Things End
Writing, Patience and Happiness
I failed at the writing an extra post to make up for last week’s non-kinky post. I spend at least forty-five minutes every day, writing for him because I promised myself I would. Because I was having trouble communicating, and Continue reading Writing, Patience and Happiness
Communication, Goals and Separation
A day late, but hopefully not a dollar short, my dear readers. Yesterday, life and a missing power cord got in the way of my posting. It has been quite the roller coaster ride for me lately, but what would Continue reading Communication, Goals and Separation