My Four Mistakes 1. I did not wear a skirt when I went over to his house last Tuesday. In fact, I wore jeans. Excuses, excuses, excuses. I did not wear a skirt, as I had agreed to do, and Continue reading Mistakes, Punishment & Service
I’ve had a stressful week and I wanted to have a cathartic release last night. But, life happens, and things did not add up to that. I did, however, manage to find a comfort, and pain and solace. First, in Continue reading Sometimes It’s the Little Things
The Everest Answer: Because it’s there. The Ego-maniacal Answer: Because I can. The Inner Child Answer: Because it’s fun. The Social Networking Answer: Because a few others are doing it. The Google Analytics Answer: Because more posts = more traffic. Continue reading 30 Posts in 3 Days, or Why am I doing the 30 Days of Kink meme?
The holiday season is full upon us, with all the busy that it entails. Family gatherings, play parties, work parties, club parties. Presents, buying, giving, donating, shopping,wrapping, mailing cooking, decorating, planning. Everyone is running at full tilt, and the weather Continue reading Holiday Storm
Last year, I thanked everyone who helped me take my first steps into the local community and my first steps into personal growth and acceptance. Most of those people are still a part of my increasingly wonderful life, and I Continue reading Thanksgiving
As I posted yesterday, my first professionally published piece is available for sale. Also yesterday, Elysium Avenue reblogged my Consensual Non-Consent post. Last week, after making my post here about drop, I found a new blog called Fearless Press and Continue reading Big Week, Lots of Links and Labels
A very busy week, and another missed deadline. I did not even touch a computer on Thursday. With Halloween comes a big goth and fetish party in town and the crowd there is far bigger than any we see all Continue reading Wicked Fun and Tim Minchin
Blogging, writing, screaming to be noticed – silently. Watching the numbers on the stats graph rise and fall, seeing them fall more often than rise. What am I doing this for? Who and I doing this for? Why? Every Thursday Continue reading Introverted Social Networking
I celebrated my anniversary yesterday. Married six years to my wonderful Hubby. We celebrated with sex, food and Hollywood violence. We first met in person ten years ago, to the month, but not the day. We had started talking the Continue reading Anniversary
I posted to the blog my mother reads today, listing what these past thirty years have gotten me. One of the listings was “A wonderful husband.” I had the urge to continue that line with “and two amazing boyfriends.” That Continue reading 30th Birthday Ruminations