When does art become porn? And why do I react differently to those words? Porn has negative connotations to me. Porn is dirty, undignified, disgusting. It has no plot, no thought, no meaning. Art is a creative process. Art is Continue reading Art or Porn?
A friend wrote last month how she is finally learning to trust her body, through kink. I have been at odds with my body since I was sixteen, almost half my life now. I fight it, I ignore it, I Continue reading Trust Your Body, Trust Yourself
I’m having a bad day. Work was fine, the cat didn’t attack me, the weather was gorgeous, no one got hurt or is deathly ill in my immediate life(though, for my good friends who do have that in their lives, Continue reading A Bad Day
What’s really there is that I have an awesome boyfriend who loves me, who trusts me, and who wants to continue our journey together, in life and in kink. What’s really there is several new paths we are taking, one Continue reading The Writing on My Thighs
My Four Mistakes 1. I did not wear a skirt when I went over to his house last Tuesday. In fact, I wore jeans. Excuses, excuses, excuses. I did not wear a skirt, as I had agreed to do, and Continue reading Mistakes, Punishment & Service
I’ve had a stressful week and I wanted to have a cathartic release last night. But, life happens, and things did not add up to that. I did, however, manage to find a comfort, and pain and solace. First, in Continue reading Sometimes It’s the Little Things
The Everest Answer: Because it’s there. The Ego-maniacal Answer: Because I can. The Inner Child Answer: Because it’s fun. The Social Networking Answer: Because a few others are doing it. The Google Analytics Answer: Because more posts = more traffic. Continue reading 30 Posts in 3 Days, or Why am I doing the 30 Days of Kink meme?
The holiday season is full upon us, with all the busy that it entails. Family gatherings, play parties, work parties, club parties. Presents, buying, giving, donating, shopping,wrapping, mailing cooking, decorating, planning. Everyone is running at full tilt, and the weather Continue reading Holiday Storm
Last year, I thanked everyone who helped me take my first steps into the local community and my first steps into personal growth and acceptance. Most of those people are still a part of my increasingly wonderful life, and I Continue reading Thanksgiving
As I posted yesterday, my first professionally published piece is available for sale. Also yesterday, Elysium Avenue reblogged my Consensual Non-Consent post. Last week, after making my post here about drop, I found a new blog called Fearless Press and Continue reading Big Week, Lots of Links and Labels