I read a post by a good friend of mine today, and it raised two topics in my mind, (one I have posted on before). Today’s post was about not taking things personally when people ask questions about your lifestyle Continue reading Try Love, Not Anger
I wrote this week: “Full disclosure, in a world where women are treated as sex objects, telling me I’m sexy and turn you on isn’t as reassuring of my value to you as one might think.” Today, I wrote this Continue reading Sexy, and I Know It – So What?
“So, you’re not going to write about me?” I don’t write about the sex I have. I don’t write about things I’m not willing to do in public, because let’s face it, the internet is public. Intimacy is intimate, to Continue reading Sex, Words, and Trauma 2015
A couple quotes for thought today. “It is the obvious which is so difficult to see most of the time. People say ‘It’s as plain as the nose on your face.’ But how much of the nose on your face Continue reading Mirror, Mirror…
This body, this thing. It is not who I am. I have hated it, fought it, loved it, ignored it, accepted it, objectified it, challenged it, pleased it, scolded it, pampered it, scratched it, coddled it, hid it, photographed it. Continue reading This Body, This Thing
Why don’t you want to have sex? I have a lot of friends, and I flirt with many of them. Some of them I get physical with, either kissing or kink-wise. But I stopped having casual sex years ago, for Continue reading Love & Sex
I keep having all these thoughts about what to blog about when I’m not sitting at the computer nor able to write them down. Then it is several days before I get to a place where I have the time Continue reading All the Ideas
Well, that didn’t work out at all like I hoped. A month off from classes, and I only posted, what, Twice? To be fair, I spent one weekend at a convention, and one weekend camping with hardly any cell service, Continue reading Best Laid Plans
I don’t feel well today. But I wanted to post something here anyway. To all my friends and family (chosen and blood), I love you! I am glad you are part of this amazing life I lead. I appreciate all Continue reading It is Important!