I was sharing this blog with a new person this week, and I glanced through my 30 Days of Kink from 2011 and was highly amused at some of the things I said. So, in an effort to keep drop Continue reading 30 Days of Kink, 2023 Edition
Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about. I do this every week, so check out my blog in general for whatever I wanted to write about. Click a tag that interests you, or one of my vague categories. Continue reading Day Thirty – Free Write
Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general? I call them labels as opposed to titles. Here is my most recent Continue reading Day Twenty-Nine – Titles
How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you? I wrote about clothes in the first part of this entry. And about Latex in that one. Dressing for play is usually about feeling attractive Continue reading Day Twenty-Eight – Kinky Clothes
Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how? I have non-kink interests? Just kidding. I guess, sometimes they do. D&D doesn’t, at least not outright, my group is far too sexually repressed for Continue reading Day Twenty-Seven – Non-kink Interests
What’s your opinion on online BDSM play? Been there, done that, RL has been better to me. I’m a writer, I had fun creating scenes with people online. Cybering, if you will. Words are powerful to me. But it isn’t Continue reading Day Twenty-Six – Online Play
How open are you about your kinks? Deja Vu… Openness My 30 Days of Kink
What qualities do you look for in a partner? Intelligence, Honesty, Compassion, Passion, Respect, Love Intelligence – He doesn’t have to have college degrees falling off the walls, or be a scientist or lawyer. But he has to have a Continue reading Day Twenty-Four – A Quality Partner
Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so? One year after joining the local community I wrote this. I have grown in so many ways. When I first got into the community and people Continue reading Day Twenty-Three – Changes
What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship? Clear and Honest Communication is important in any relationship. My 30 Days of Kink