One of the things on my mind when I was doing the Thirty Days of Kink meme was openness. There were two questions I linked to the same post about being open with my friends, but not with my family. Continue reading BDSM Is Not Abuse
Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how? I have non-kink interests? Just kidding. I guess, sometimes they do. D&D doesn’t, at least not outright, my group is far too sexually repressed for Continue reading Day Twenty-Seven – Non-kink Interests
What’s your opinion on online BDSM play? Been there, done that, RL has been better to me. I’m a writer, I had fun creating scenes with people online. Cybering, if you will. Words are powerful to me. But it isn’t Continue reading Day Twenty-Six – Online Play
How open are you about your kinks? Deja Vu… Openness My 30 Days of Kink
What qualities do you look for in a partner? Intelligence, Honesty, Compassion, Passion, Respect, Love Intelligence – He doesn’t have to have college degrees falling off the walls, or be a scientist or lawyer. But he has to have a Continue reading Day Twenty-Four – A Quality Partner
Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so? One year after joining the local community I wrote this. I have grown in so many ways. When I first got into the community and people Continue reading Day Twenty-Three – Changes
What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship? Clear and Honest Communication is important in any relationship. My 30 Days of Kink
Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction). I have not read the entirety of many BDSM related books, but I really like Douglas Kent’s Complete Shibari: Land and Sky and still need to get my own copies and write a Continue reading Day Twenty-One – Favorite Book
Talk about something within kink/BDSM that you’re curious about/don’t understand. I don’t understand you (I don’t understand you) I just don’t understand you (I don’t understand you) I don’t understand the things you say I can’t understand a single word Continue reading Day Twenty – Do You Understand
Just finished reading The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt, original edition. I was only a few chapters in when I realized that I would be reading it over again, with pen and paper in hand, if Continue reading The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt