I’ve talked about my masochism many times before. About how it’s not just about pain, but “intense sensation.” Especially controlled, intentional, intense sensation. I’ve talked about my RA, and how that pain is unwelcome, unsexy, and uncontrolled. I’ve talked about Continue reading Not Just a Masochist
A lot of things going through my head lately, and this weekend was no exception. I’m about halfway through a book called Kushiel’s Dart by Jacqueline Carey. The main character, Phedre, is a masochist of exquisite talent. Raised first in Continue reading Kushiel’s Dart Meets Aldonza
The other day, I was asked “Do all true masochists orgasm from pain?” After snickerting at the word “true” for a moment, I answered masochists enjoy intense sensation. Each in their own way. Later, I felt this deserved a bit Continue reading Masochism
Wow, I’ve been blogging for two years as of tomorrow. Two on WordPress, and one cross-posting from PervertedImp.com. That also means that I’ve been part of my local community for three years. What a ride it has been. Honest poly Continue reading Two Years and Counting
My Four Mistakes 1. I did not wear a skirt when I went over to his house last Tuesday. In fact, I wore jeans. Excuses, excuses, excuses. I did not wear a skirt, as I had agreed to do, and Continue reading Mistakes, Punishment & Service
List Your Kinks Bondage Mental Rope -Suspension Leather Metal Saran Wrap -Mummification Duct Tape Bondage Tape Straitjackets Hoods Masochism Spanking Flogging Paddles Drumming Caning Single Tails Pressure Points Biting Pinching Smacking Hair Pulling Knives Fire play Clamps -Nipple Clamps -Clothes Continue reading Day Two – List Your Kinks
To start the New Year, I am going to attempt the meme: 30 Days of Kink. This is Day One, that I wrote as a guest post for Insatiable Desire. Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give Continue reading Day One – Define Your Kinky Self
A lot on my mind this week, so I may end up with several posts, just going to start typing and see where I end up. I had a couple random ideas last week. The first being around forced feminization. Continue reading Beauty is Pain