I was sharing this blog with a new person this week, and I glanced through my 30 Days of Kink from 2011 and was highly amused at some of the things I said. So, in an effort to keep drop Continue reading 30 Days of Kink, 2023 Edition
It has been a rough few weeks. Relationship and communication issues on both sides of my poly family. But I don’t really want to talk about that stuff here. So, what shall I talk about? I could rant about the Continue reading Rant Ranty Rant
An interesting week. Sorry for the late post, hopefully Monday’s tided you over until today. Last weekend was great, and I was happy to share my joy. This week has been about letting go, for me. As in relaxing, as Continue reading Letting Go
What qualities do you look for in a partner? Intelligence, Honesty, Compassion, Passion, Respect, Love Intelligence – He doesn’t have to have college degrees falling off the walls, or be a scientist or lawyer. But he has to have a Continue reading Day Twenty-Four – A Quality Partner
What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship? Clear and Honest Communication is important in any relationship. My 30 Days of Kink
Everyone says communication is they key. I have talked about it being one of the most important things in poly. He and I have discussed how important it is to maintaining and protecting our relationship. In scene and out of Continue reading Clear Communication
I’ve posted about Saying No and I’ve posted about how talking helps me out of Sub Drop, but communication is important in other ways, too. Clear, honest communication. It starts with being clear and honest with myself. That may sound Continue reading Clear and Honest Communication
As the daughter and sister of ministers, you can imagine that being kinky and poly doesn’t come up at family dinners very often. I wonder what it would be like to be truly me. To be open and honest with the world. I’m considering letting more people know about the blog, it wouldn’t remain anonymous in anything but name if I did. Continue reading Coming Out
Just in case you missed it the first time, because apparently someone did… with very few exceptions, if you think you “Can’t say No to him” then you Should Not be playing with him and you need to take a Continue reading Saying NO