A group of kinky friends went away for a long weekend in the woods. It was absolutely delightful. A relaxing few days of food, fellowship, and floating. Salt water is so much better than chlorine. Also, fruit snacks might be Continue reading Kinky Getaway
Late posting, as always, but hey. Gotta stick with tradition. I started this blog on May 20th, 2009. I was 28 years old, married, and dating (my now ex) lover. Today I am divorced, and dating two men, one for Continue reading 11th Anniversary
I was a young girl, confused by her own arousal. Making up stories of being kidnapped, and not sure why. I was a college girl, innocent of boys. Until he taught me to kiss. And he taught me to bite. Continue reading Remembering Who I Am
Today, I spent the afternoon remembering my entry into the public community of Kink. It is strange to look back on this blog, over ten years in the making, and think about drawing things from early on. To remember things Continue reading Remembering
I am thankful for my families. My parents for being supportive in all the ways they can. My brother for being the best brother he can, and a good father to my nephew and nieces. My boyfriend and his wife, Continue reading Thanks Giving 2016
COPE next week. And I haven’t a thing to wear. 😉 I haven’t even begun to think about what I’m taking with me to COPE this year. Friday is a comic theme, I think I’ll be skipping that again, as Continue reading COPE is Coming
I’m not a political person, but I’ve been watching a lot of West Wing dvds lately, and paying a little more attention to the news. You might have noticed from the last few weeks of links to articles, and the Continue reading Human Dignity
“Behind every great man, there’s a great woman.” Or reverse that, if you’re the other way around. I’m not a leader. I don’t play the politics game. I am a follower, an organizer, a communicator and a peace-maker. I stay Continue reading Leadership and Community
Some unusual (for me) conversations this week. It started on Monday, when I was accused of making light of rape culture and slut shaming because I was joking about my rape fantasies. Having never heard the term “slut shaming,” I Continue reading Rape Culture Rant
A good number of changes currently happening in my poly life and in the community I’m a part of. A new space has been acquired by some community leaders and a lot of groups are moving their meetings there. This Continue reading Everything Changes, Everything Stays the Same