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Tag Archives: communication

Night Huntress series by Jeaniene Frost

Posted on September 17, 2024 by PervertedImp

Loving this series. For a lot of reasons, but especially the treatment of the main relationship. Read an article recently about how women like romance novels because they feature not just happy endings, but men taking responsibility for bad behavior, Continue reading Night Huntress series by Jeaniene Frost→

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Posted in Communication, Reflection | Tagged book, communication, Love, relationships, sex, vampires

People Plan, The Gods Laugh

Posted on March 17, 2024 by PervertedImp

Had it all planned out. The three of us ride in together, set up, Bratting as Service class, scene with Him, scene with new partner, then DM, tear down and home. Then came a really rough week, and the storms. Continue reading People Plan, The Gods Laugh→

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Posted in Rope, S&M, Scenes | Tagged Biting, bondage, communication, corporal, kiss, paddles, rope, suspension

Just Breathe

Posted on February 27, 2023 by PervertedImp

I like pain. I like nipple clamps. I like kneeling for him. But I’m 42 years old and have been living, like you, through a pandemic for the last three years. My body is no longer in the “doing kinky Continue reading Just Breathe→

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Posted in D/s, Rope, S&M | Tagged body image, breathing, communication, kneeling, Nipple Clamps, pain, rope, weight

Things I Took Away from COPE:

Posted on September 18, 2014 by PervertedImp

Friday Play Party: Wooden paddles are awesome, and awful, and pretty, and evil, and OMFG they sting! Giving him two targets, an alcove, and plenty of toys is a recipe for Amazing. I need to quit comparing… no, really, knock Continue reading Things I Took Away from COPE:→

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Posted in Reflection | Tagged coconut, communication, COPE, drop, humiliation, paddle, pain, sting

Frustration

Posted on July 12, 2014 by PervertedImp

Mind is spinning on a lot of different topics. Topics I’ve talked about before, at length. Things happening that have happened before. I skimmed back through my blog, for previous posts to jump off from. But my thoughts aren’t organized. Continue reading Frustration→

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Posted in Communication | Tagged boundaries, communication, consent, frustration

Intent

Posted on October 24, 2013 by PervertedImp

A woman is hugging everyone goodbye and comes towards you with her arms spread wide vs. a woman is crowding you into a corner with her arms spread wide. A man is behind you in line, follows you through the Continue reading Intent→

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Posted in Communication | Tagged assumptions, communication, fear, intention

Secondary Poly

Posted on September 5, 2013 by PervertedImp

Still not feeling well, so this may or may not make any sense. Today’s topic: poly. More specifically: strange ramblings from the secondary point of view. Part One. Someone started a thread over on FL with this quote: “Primary partners Continue reading Secondary Poly→

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Posted in Polyamory | Tagged communication, expectations, future, listening, permanency, poly, Primary, secondary

Boundary Responsibility

Posted on February 21, 2013 by PervertedImp

Boundary responsibility has been on my mind a lot lately. Who’s responsibility are your boundaries and agreements? On the surface, this answer is simple – you are responsible for your own boundaries. You are responsible for knowing your boundaries, for Continue reading Boundary Responsibility→

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Posted in Communication | Tagged agreements, boundaries, communication, personal responsibility

Fun Scene Ideas

Posted on January 31, 2013 by PervertedImp

I wrote a bucket list for 2013, of things that I haven’t tried yet. But what about things that I’ve done before, to one degree or another, that are just fun. I don’t mean another list of what kinks I Continue reading Fun Scene Ideas→

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Posted in Clothing, D/s, Rope, S&M, Scenes | Tagged bootblacking, communication, eeling, Electric, games, latex, mummification, rope, sensory deprivation, service

Special Words

Posted on October 4, 2012 by PervertedImp

We talk to each other every day. We communicate with people on many levels. We show our love and appreciation through both action and words. We say ‘I love you’ as often as we can. Sometimes, we say it so Continue reading Special Words→

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Posted in Communication | Tagged balance, bruises, communication, diamonds, Love, pain slut, special, unique, words

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