
Category Archives: Reflection
Remembering
Today, I spent the afternoon remembering my entry into the public community of Kink. It is strange to look back on this blog, over ten years in the making, and think about drawing things from early on. To remember things Continue reading Remembering
TBT: Wildmage
Another Year, Another Post
I’m not keen on this new block editor WordPress is using, but I’ve wasted enough time today completely changing the look of my blog. It’s been a year since I said I was going to write about an amazing night Continue reading Another Year, Another Post
What a Wonderful Night
With all my health issues, and both our new jobs, we’ve been struggling to make kink connection. Not always, but often. We’ve worked on finding harnesses that work for me. And he gave me a splendid birthday spanking/paddling last month. Continue reading What a Wonderful Night
Reminders of the Past
I have been reminded at work, why I write this blog. We did a strengths assessment and training seminars. One of the questions asked was “I feel strong when I…” My first answer was work-related, but my second answer was Continue reading Reminders of the Past
The Plans of Mice and Men
We’ve been working on a new chest harness, and it seems to work pretty well for my current body. We just don’t get a lot of time. One thing or another, exhaustion, timing, groceries, even just someone else’s rough day, Continue reading The Plans of Mice and Men
Body Awareness
I’ve been meaning to post for a couple weeks now, but Things keep happening that distract or exhaust me. I’m working on posting more, though, so, I’ve got a few minutes now. I’ll try to remember what I wanted to Continue reading Body Awareness
Self Care
Self care isn’t just about eating right, exercising, and sleeping. It is also caring about your own happiness, and not staying in situations that make you miserable. It’s about speaking up for yourself and going after what you want. I am Continue reading Self Care
Wondering Woman
You know you’ve been away from your blog too long when you’ve missed five version updates of the CMS. It’s June already, and I’ve only made 4 posts this year. I am going to stop giving all the excuses of Continue reading Wondering Woman

