Category Archives: Reflection
Late Posting Pt. 1
Sorry about the late post this week. Work is killing me with these full time hours, grateful, but so very tired. Friday night started the Halloween line up of kinky events. We had a belly dance class and our usual Continue reading Late Posting Pt. 1
Rape Culture Rant
Some unusual (for me) conversations this week. It started on Monday, when I was accused of making light of rape culture and slut shaming because I was joking about my rape fantasies. Having never heard the term “slut shaming,” I Continue reading Rape Culture Rant
Blossoming Submission
I don’t think I did justice to the topic of my journey into submission in my long rambling post. Not sure I really did justice to any of the topics I covered, but this one struck me especially. I talked Continue reading Blossoming Submission
Is This The Life I Expected?
Friends of mine have been talking/puzzling about their lives not being what they expected them to be. For some, this is causing great distress. So, I decided to take a look at the question. Growing up, what did I expect Continue reading Is This The Life I Expected?
COPE 2012 was Amazing
What an amazing weekend! I didn’t get to do everything I wanted to do, but that’s the nature of life, and what I did get to do, more than made up for anything that we didn’t manage to squeeze in. Continue reading COPE 2012 was Amazing
It’s Here!
COPE is today, it starts in just 8 hours! I’ve packed my suitcase, my toybag and my purse. I’m ready to go. Okay, not entirely ready to go, I’m still naked, but my bags are ready to go. Super excited Continue reading It’s Here!
Great Expectations
While sitting in the theater, waiting for Avenue Q to start, hubby turned and asked me about expectations. Hubby felt that my boyfriend and I had a good handle on setting expectations and asked how we did it. Or more Continue reading Great Expectations
Rollercoasters Are More Fun With Counting
The only trouble is, I find, that I close my eyes on 3, and miss part of the ride. King’s Island was a blast though. I’m heading out on a weekend away to visit more conservative family. I was hoping Continue reading Rollercoasters Are More Fun With Counting
Top Ten Lists
I should be being responsible, cleaning up a the least, doing laundry, editing. So, of course, I’m blogging instead. But I can’t focus on serious stuff, not even erotica. I started poking around my site stats. And then I started Continue reading Top Ten Lists