Sorry for all the mindless blather last month. I’m sure some of you liked it, but I’m equally sure some of you ignored it entirely after the first few posts, if that. I often comment here that I’m not good Continue reading Social Anxiety
Ideal Pre-Relationship Discussions Are you poly, what’s your flavor of poly, do you currently have partners, what are your agreements? What should I know about your physical/mental/sexual health? What are your interests (kinky and vanilla)? What are your boundaries and Continue reading List Fifteen – Relationship Questions
Today when I logged in I had over 1600 comments in the spam folder. Wouldn’t it be nice if that many people had actually visited my blog in the past week? But no, I average around a 100 a week, Continue reading Lists, Clothes and Betterment
I had a conversation recently about boundaries. In certain venues, or after certain amounts of alcohol in other venues, I’m a fairly flirty person. Every now and then, there comes up the question of how far is too far? And Continue reading Unfinished Conversation
The class Friday night talked a lot about negotiation, and one of the things he went through was discussing limits and triggers. So, my brain was running around a lot this morning and pondered where I’ve come since my first Continue reading Limits Revisited
Still not feeling great, plus am exhausted and keep dropping stuff, so I’m just going to post this video… There will also be an e[lust] digest coming in the next few days.
A woman is hugging everyone goodbye and comes towards you with her arms spread wide vs. a woman is crowding you into a corner with her arms spread wide. A man is behind you in line, follows you through the Continue reading Intent
Photo courtesy of Property of Potter Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions Continue reading e[lust] #51
I saw this meme on Facebook today. And, while it is all good advice, the fourth one hit home with me today, in several ways. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present. What others think Continue reading Your Own Little World
There was discussion of a “Care and Keeping Guide” this week. In thinking about that kind of thing, I came up with this, a quick overview of me, for anyone who might ponder pursuing a relationship with me. I am Continue reading Quickstart Guide