There was discussion of a “Care and Keeping Guide” this week. In thinking about that kind of thing, I came up with this, a quick overview of me, for anyone who might ponder pursuing a relationship with me. I am Continue reading Quickstart Guide
I was introduced to a new website by one of my classes this week… Wordle.net so I made this pretty picture of my Tag Cloud for you. Yes, my brain is that stumped tonight. I’m not sure why. I had Continue reading Wordle
350 posts. No wonder I had to keep myself from writing my first grad school paper like a blog post. Eesh, that’s a lot of blogging, and this is only one of the three blogs (plus one currently dormant), that Continue reading Social Ramblings
Photo courtesy of Down the Rabbit Hole Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky Continue reading e[lust] #50
I’m not sure what to write today, a lot of my friends are attending cons this weekend, but I’m curling up with pets, CSI and homework instead, so why not just go with gratitude. It’s always good to remember that Continue reading I am Grateful
Still not feeling well, so this may or may not make any sense. Today’s topic: poly. More specifically: strange ramblings from the secondary point of view. Part One. Someone started a thread over on FL with this quote: “Primary partners Continue reading Secondary Poly
I attended a class last night on service and ritual and, as good classes do, it got me thinking. I carelessly commented, after, that ‘we have no rituals.’ He quickly corrected me, handing me his bottle as he did, which Continue reading Service and Ritual
A friend of mine posted recently about his young son, after being yelled at, saying “Daddy, I made you angry.” He then had to pause and reflect on his anger and tell his son, “I am angry, but you didn’t Continue reading Owning My Shit
My voice is soft, and higher than I’d like to admit. I have to struggle to be heard. I have to repeat myself a lot. If I’m asked to read aloud or speak in front of a group, I blush Continue reading Listening
What’s on your mind? What are you afraid to say? Those two questions drive me to distraction sometimes. My mind is a twisted, fucked up, dark little thing, and I don’t always want to share its activities with the real Continue reading Thoughts and Communication