I wrote this week: “Full disclosure, in a world where women are treated as sex objects, telling me I’m sexy and turn you on isn’t as reassuring of my value to you as one might think.” Today, I wrote this Continue reading Sexy, and I Know It – So What?
“So, you’re not going to write about me?” I don’t write about the sex I have. I don’t write about things I’m not willing to do in public, because let’s face it, the internet is public. Intimacy is intimate, to Continue reading Sex, Words, and Trauma 2015
As someone who has been broken up with because he “can’t handle my disease.” As someone whose future mother-in-law asked her future husband why he couldn’t find someone who wasn’t sick or broken. As someone whose boyfriend asked her when Continue reading In Sickness and In Health
A couple quotes for thought today. “It is the obvious which is so difficult to see most of the time. People say ‘It’s as plain as the nose on your face.’ But how much of the nose on your face Continue reading Mirror, Mirror…
This body, this thing. It is not who I am. I have hated it, fought it, loved it, ignored it, accepted it, objectified it, challenged it, pleased it, scolded it, pampered it, scratched it, coddled it, hid it, photographed it. Continue reading This Body, This Thing
It was a different event this year. A different crowd, a different feel, a different energy. He had a lot of requests, I was just planning on one scene with him. I demo-bottomed for one part of one class, attended Continue reading Post COPE Post
Check-in, in just 4 hours. Pondering doing a little shopping. As always, stories to come, after. 🙂
COPE next week. And I haven’t a thing to wear. 😉 I haven’t even begun to think about what I’m taking with me to COPE this year. Friday is a comic theme, I think I’ll be skipping that again, as Continue reading COPE is Coming
This past weekend was a really good one. We had our usual monthly Friday party, two rope intensives on Saturday, a Saturday party, and our monthly rope gathering on Sunday. It was so much fun, and educational, and we did Continue reading We Did the Thing!
Photo courtesy of HT Honey Welcome to Elust #73 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions Continue reading Elust #73