The last post discussed intentions and insecurities. This post will be about results. Or results so far. The next post will be more about how it turned out. Let me explain. After the last post, negotiating began in earnest with the new old friend and the occasional play partner.
Starting with the latter. The initial excitement was followed up by some flirting and discussion of doing something more than just beating the fuck out of me. Which dipped into psych/fear play and an interest in nipple clamps being involved because sadist gonna sadist. Which led to talking about needing to make sure I’m breathing properly so I can maintain my senses with that much pain. Which, the led to talking of breath play. So, we have planned a scene of fear, pain, and control. I am excitedly nervous.
On the new negotiations, they have gone exceedingly well. We had a date night later that week where we did some more fire and printed knife play. Then sat naked and talked until late. The following week we had a second date night of being nerdy and finding our chemistry together.
His partner has been absolutely supportive and encouraging, doing her best to make sure I ask for anything and everything I want. They hosted a small play party this weekend and I got to come over again. I even asked to stay the night, just before he invited me to do so himself. I was going to top electric for several at the party, but after I topped him, we got distracted with skin and teeth and the rest of the group let us be. I feel a little bad about that, but there’s always next time to plan better. We had a lovely night and found it quite difficult to leave bed in the morning.
We spent a lot of time chatting about boundaries and fetishes and toys and language. It’s fun to get to know someone new, even if you’ve known them for a long time. We also negotiated a corporal scene for this coming weekend’s party, after the clamps and breath play scene. One gets the front of me, the other gets the back. Should be an excellent night.
My last post also mentioned letting Him know things I want ahead of time. He got a lot of requests to play for this week’s coming party, so as I was negotiating my two scenes, I have asked Him for something for one of the several longer events coming up. I would love to do another mummification scene with Him. In the meantime, doing my best to keep connected with us and all the new we are both experiencing.
