The class Friday night talked a lot about negotiation, and one of the things he went through was discussing limits and triggers. So, my brain was running around a lot this morning and pondered where I’ve come since my first post on the matter.
So, here’s what it currently looks like:
Hard Limits (No Fucking Way)
Anything with a probable ending in a hospital, morgue or jail (children, animals, maiming, drugs, death)
Food control/deprivation/force-feeding
Cutting of hair/shaving of eyebrows
Piss, Shit & Vomit
Infantilism
Furries
Branding/Tattoos
Unsafe Sex
Orgies
Degradation
Multiple Snakes
Financial Domination
Soft Limits (You Better Be in a Serious Relationship With Me to Even Ask)
A Snake
Needles/Staples/Hooks/Piercing
Sparklers/Sparks
Cutting
Stun Guns/Tasers/Stun Batons
Whips longer than 3′
Breath Play
Gags
Grabbing the throat
Face Slapping
Anal Play
Negative Emotional Triggers (Trespassers Beware)
Uselessness
Worthlessness
Failure
Yelling
Sjamboks
