List Twenty – Must Haves

February 20th, 2014

Top Five Relationship Must Haves

  1. Love
  2. Honesty
  3. Respect
  4. Clear Communication
  5. Individuality

List Nineteen – Not So Favorite Tasks

February 19th, 2014

Some Not So Favorite Service Tasks

  1. Driving – it always makes me extra nervous, and I don’t like bad weather driving
  2. Saving seats – it means I’m sitting alone, and have to tell other people to stay away
  3. Herding cats – because sometimes people drive me crazy
  4. Taking care of myself – because I’m prone to putting others first

List Eighteen – Favorite Service Tasks

February 18th, 2014

Top Five Favorite Service Tasks

  1. Bootblacking
  2. Fetching food/water/objects
  3. Scene assistance – holding implements, assisting lifts/drops, clean-up
  4. Pet Sitting
  5. Organizing/Cleaning

List Seventeen – Corporal Sensations

February 17th, 2014

Different Types of Corporal Sensations with Examples

  1. Soft Thud – cupped hand, padded paddle, padded mallets, light floggers,
  2. Heavy Thud – mop flogger, cricket bat, fists, kicking, heavy flogger, donkey dong
  3. Stingy Thud – rubber floggers, medium paddles
  4. Heavy Sting – thin paddles, flat hands, horse cock, rhino cock, belt/thick strap
  5. Thin Sting – canes, spoons, pony pecker
  6. Sharp Sting – single tails, wicked sticks, snapped or tipped floggers

List Sixteen – Pet Peeves

February 16th, 2014

Top 5 Lifestyle Pet Peeves

  1. One Twue Way
  2. Do-me subs/Everyone wants me Doms
  3. Can’t-do-me subs/I’m too much for you Doms
  4. Poly/mono but only so I can date him/her
  5. “I can’t say no to him/her…”

List Fifteen – Relationship Questions

February 15th, 2014

Ideal Pre-Relationship Discussions

  1. Are you poly, what’s your flavor of poly, do you currently have partners, what are your agreements?
  2. What should I know about your physical/mental/sexual health?
  3. What are your interests (kinky and vanilla)?
  4. What are your boundaries and limits?
  5. What are your intentions and expectations?
  6. What are your needs, wants, and desires in regards to me?
  7. Why do you want this relationship?

List Fourteen – Toy Bag

February 14th, 2014

What’s in My Toy Bag?

  1. Clover-leaf nipple clamps
  2. Blindfold
  3. The butt plug he told me to keep with me and appropriate lube
  4. Hitachi
  5. Strait Jacket
  6. Safety scissors
  7. Mini first aid kit

List Thirteen – Shopping

February 13th, 2014

Favorite Places to Shop for Kink Clothing

  2. Rag-o-rama
  3. ZZ Boots – Wildman’s Leather & Lace
  4. Thrift stores
  5. Costume Stores
  6. Lion’s Den

List Twelve – Places and Sites

February 12th, 2014

Top Ten Places I Want to Go or Things I Want to See

  1. Las Vegas
  2. Stonehenge
  3. The Book of Kells
  4. London
  5. Cherry blossoms in Japan
  6. Niagra Falls
  7. Grand Canyon
  8. Disney World/Land/Epcot/etc.
  9. Great Barrier Reef
  10. Great Wall of China

List Eleven – Shows

February 11th, 2014

Top Five Show I Want to See

  1. Les Miserables
  2. Wicked
  3. Book of Mormon
  4. Newsies
  5. Everything Cirque du Soleil does