January 26th, 2011
What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?
Been there, done that, RL has been better to me.
I’m a writer, I had fun creating scenes with people online. Cybering, if you will. Words are powerful to me. But it isn’t for me anymore. Real life play, with someone who I can touch and hug and curl up with after is what I prefer now.
January 14th, 2011
How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?
I am again on the path of it being the same as the rest of life. Reality is a lot harder, grittier and more dangerous than any fantasy. It takes more work, is never perfect, and does not always go the way you planned. On the other hand, reality is more fulfilling, more satisfying, and well worth the effort it takes.