Perverted Imp

Saying NO

September 25th, 2009

Just in case you missed it the first time, because apparently someone did… with very few exceptions, if you think you “Can’t say No to him” then you Should Not be playing with him and you need to take a careful look at yourself.  For that matter, he shouldn’t be playing with you either, because he can’t trust you to be safe and honest.

Tags: communication, consensual, control, dominant, honesty, limits, No, open, safe, safeword, sane, self esteem, self-respect, SSC, Submissive
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1. Clear and Honest Communication « Perverted Imp's Blog says:

   December 16, 2009 at 9:15 am

   [...] clear, lies, truth, listening, scene negotiation, boundaries, safety I’ve posted about Saying No and I’ve posted about how talking helps me out of Sub Drop, but communication is important in [...]

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